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Our Whole Lives

Register for the 2023.2024 Grade 8/9 program

Why OWL?

Honest, accurate information about sexuality changes lives. It dismantles stereotypes and assumptions, builds self-acceptance and self-esteem, fosters healthy relationships, improves decision making, and has the potential to save lives. For these reasons and more, we are proud to offer Our Whole Lives (OWL), a comprehensive, lifespan sexuality education program.

Grade 8/9 OWL Program (2023.2024)

Note: The original schedule published for this year’s program has been changed and the start of the program is delayed until December.

Our Whole Lives (OWL) Sexuality Education • GRADES 8 & 9
with certified OWL facilitators Kashawna Harling, Danny Aquiar, and Ralph Long

  • Sundays, 6:30 to 8:30 pm
  • Mandatory Parent Orientation – Sunday, December 03 (6:30 – 8:30 pm); 
  • 18 Youth Sessions – Sundays – December, 2023 through May, 2024 (most sessions run from 6:30 – 8;30 pm, with some longer sessions beginning at 4:30 – see detailed schedule);
  • in the event of any class cancellations, two potential make-up dates are scheduled May 26 – June 2, 2024;
  • 2024.02.26 OWL Grade 8.9 Schedule – Updated Schedule
  • OWL 8/9 – Topics that will be covered
  • In-person (Medford)

Limited to 16 Youth, grades 8 or 9 (2023/2024 school year); we will seek to create a gender-diverse class.

Sanctuary UCC and Hillside Community Church are proud to offer to the wider community Our Whole Lives (OWL), a comprehensive sexuality education class for 8th and 9th graders. The program equips teens of all genders with accurate, age-appropriate information and skills to help them lead sexually healthy, positive, and responsible lives. Grounded in a holistic view of sexuality, OWL addresses a wide range of topics including body image, relationships, social media/internet, sexual orientation, gender identity, sexually transmitted infections, contraceptives, pornography, and cultural influences on sexuality. Through engaging activities and discussions, OWL helps teens to clarify their own values and to build their interpersonal skills. Our Whole Lives is used nationwide in a variety of community settings including schools, youth-serving agencies, and faith-based communities. Although developed by two progressive, faith-based organizations (UCC and UU denominations), OWL is secular in content and contains no religious doctrine*. 

Students’ registration requires the following:

  • attendance at mandatory parent orientation meeting on Sunday, December 03,  6:30 to 8:30pm (Online)
  • receipt of parent approval form following orientation (refunds will be provided should your family decide this is not the program for you)
  • Payment or payment arrangements

We ask that students commit to attending the full 18-session program.

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Location: Hillside Community Church (lower level) ; 144 North Street, Medford, MA  02155

Registration: $630.00 for (18) two-hour session series; materials fee ($15.00 per per person)

Scholarships and payment arrangements are available on the registration form or contact Rev. Wendy (below)

We seek to create a gender-diverse class. After your payment is received or payment arrangement is made, you will be notified of your child’s spot in either the class or a waitlist. Full refunds will be made through December 5, 2023 if, following the orientation, your family determines not to proceed.

Register Here: Link to Grade 8/9 Registration/Payment Portal

Schedule: Grade 8.9 OWL Schedule/Calendar (2024.02.26 Update) including make-up dates for snow and/or COVID delays

Contact: Rev. Wendy Miller Olapade: Wendy@SanctuaryUCC.org; Rev. Thomas Hathaway: pastor@hillsidemedford.org 

COVID Protocols: We will practice the guidelines for in-person meetings that the Department of Education has recommended for schools including masks, cleaning practices, air circulation/exchange, and no shared food. 

Session Postponement due to Snow or COVID: If weather and/or a shutdown of the local school(s) by the health department affects any of our meeting dates we will not move to virtual sessions (given the nature of the program). If we need to pause the schedule/program it is our plan to return to gathering when we can do so safely, and complete the sessions in the spring. We currently have three make up sessions noted on the schedule.

*The content of the program is based on the Guidelines for Comprehensive Sexuality Education produced by the National Guidelines Task Force, a group of leading health, education and sexuality professionals assembled by the Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States.

Meet Our Facilitators

Kashawna Harling is a dedicated mother of two teen boys and the caregiver of five loving pets. Kashawna wears multiple hats, serving as the AM2PM Youth Leadership & Community Service Director, contributing her extensive knowledge and experience to the Malden community through her role in Youth Career Services, and co-owning a pet supply & dog grooming business. With a profound belief in the importance of community and youth education, she is not only devoted to nurturing her own family but is equally committed to the growth and well-being of young minds in her community.

Ralph Long is a father of four children and co-owner of a small dog grooming business. With a background in the military, he brings discipline, commitment, and a strong sense of duty to his role as sexuality education teacher. As a proud member of both the Malden Disability Committee and Racial Equity Commission, he is devoted to spreading awareness about social issues within his community. Ralph enjoys outreach and actively works to provide essential resources and education to local youth through his dedicated involvement in community service activities.

Danny Aquiar maintains a long-standing and deep commitment to working with youth. Hailing from an immigrant background heavily influenced by family, Danny is fueled by a profound dedication to empowering families with the vital support and resources they require. In his professional journey, Danny worked in communications for the City of Malden. Simultaneously, he took on a leadership role in guiding a dynamic group of young individuals through an employment program. His passion lies in nurturing and steering these budding leaders towards self-improvement and community enrichment, imparting crucial life skills along the way.

Before that, Danny extended his influence to support at-risk youth through a different organization, where he offered mentorship and equipped them with the knowledge and confidence to chase their aspirations. Danny’s vision is to infuse youthful exuberance and charisma into his work, ensuring that the youth he serves are not only engaged but fully digesting information with the hope that they will make safer and healthier choices.