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You are invited to gather to discuss Valerie Kaur’s extraordinary work See No Stranger: A Memoir and Manifesto of Revolutionary Love

Meetings will take place over the course of 6 Wednesdays, from March 2nd to April 6th @ 7:00 to 8:15pm on Zoom. Please let us know if you plan to join us by registering HERE!

If you need financial assistance to purchase the book, please contact our pastor, Rev. Wendy at

It is highly recommended that you read the book, but you can participate if you have not – but watching/reading resources noted below and in the lesson plan.

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About the Book

An urgent manifesto and a dramatic memoir of awakening, this is the story of revolutionary love.

How do we love in a time of rage? How do we fix a broken world while not breaking ourselves? Valarie Kaur—renowned Sikh activist, filmmaker, and civil rights lawyer—describes revolutionary love as the call of our time, a radical, joyful practice that extends in three directions: to others, to our opponents, and to ourselves. It enjoins us to see no stranger but instead look at others and say: You are part of me I do not yet know. Starting from that place of wonder, the world begins to change: It is a practice that can transform a relationship, a community, a culture, even a nation.

Kaur takes readers through her own riveting journey—as a brown girl growing up in California farmland finding her place in the world; as a young adult galvanized by the murders of Sikhs after 9/11; as a law student fighting injustices in American prisons and on Guantánamo Bay; as an activist working with communities recovering from xenophobic attacks; and as a woman trying to heal from her own experiences with police violence and sexual assault. Drawing from the wisdom of sages, scientists, and activists, Kaur reclaims love as an active, public, and revolutionary force that creates new possibilities for ourselves, our communities, and our world. See No Stranger helps us imagine new ways of being with each other—and with ourselves—so that together we can begin to build the world we want to see.

Session Schedule and Resources


Table of contents and introduction



Read pages 1-98 (Part I)

Additional Resources

Chapter 1 – Wonder

Chapter 2 – Grieve 

Chapter 3 – Fight

Session 3 – Wed, Mar 16

Read pages 99-205 (Part II)

Additional Resources

Chapter 4 – Rage

Chapter 5 – Listen

Chapter 6 – Reimagine

Session 4 – Wed Mar 23

Read pages 206-300 (Part III)

Additional Resources

Chapter 7 – Breathe

Chapter 8 – Push

Chapter 9 – Transition 

Session 5 –  Wed, Mar 30

Read pages 301-332 (Epilogue)

Additional Resources

Chapter 10 – Joy 

Session 6 –  Wed, Apr 6

Review the Revolutionary Love Compass (OverviewDetailed Guide)

Additional Resources from The Revolutionary Love Project

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